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Off The Field: Players… This Is Why Your Families LOVE Being Part of Your Softball Journeys! (Dec. 13, 2024)

By Randy Patterson

December 13, 2024

The Patterson family in Colorado for the Colorado Sparkler tournament.

Off The Field: Players… This Is Why Your Families LOVE Being Part of Your Softball Journeys! (Dec. 13, 2024)

Randy and Carrie Patterson have two teenagers—Liam, a 17-year-old junior at Westlake High in Austin, Texas, and Caitlin, a 15-year-old sophomore at Westlake High who we know from her standout softball talents.

Caitlin is a standout pitcher and power hitter and was ranked No. 28 in the 2027 Line Drive HOT 100 player rankings which came out over the summer.

Randy has made a strong case through words and photos of why softball is so important to him and his family… and it has to do with quality time and experiences off the field and the memories they get to make together.

Here is what he has beautifully written and shared with Line Drive Softball on how being together as a family is always a “win!”

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We live in Austin Texas, which means that even every “local” Texas tournament represents a two to three hour drive each way. In total, we likely spend 50-plus overnight stays a year on the road as a family for practices, tournaments, showcases, and college camps.

A last minute flight on Delta, meant the family had to sit in the very back together!

These drives (and flights) have not only served as a time to get to know each other, but it gives us time to decompress after a busy week, and then decompress again after an exciting softball weekend.

This positively impacts our mental health, even if this “decompression” takes a little longer on some weekends than others. The conversations we have had behind a windshield (from watching the sun rise to the field lights turning off Sunday night) are truly priceless. 

What is a road trip to a tourney without dropping by largest gas station in the world: Buc-ees!

While traveling to play around the country is a commitment in your daughter’s development, it’s more importantly a priceless investment in the quality time you get to spend with your family experiencing new places and meeting new people, and without the interruption of technology or other distractions. 

Thanks to softball, we have seen so many wonderful places around the country, from California, to Florida, and everything in-between… (like College Station Texas). We started a pin map of places we’ve been together on our home wall and ran through the first 50 “city” pins very quickly!

Not only does softball prepare so many life skills, it’s also much needed time to reflect on the lessons learned and how to apply these to life outside and after softball. It also keeps us grounded and focused on the big picture versus any one day, one at-bat, or one pitch. 

While the game itself is full of successes and failures, the time spent together as a family is always a win. 

Randy Patterson

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More Family Time Together (Photo Gallery)!

Bumping into your best friend from an opposing team at Rosa’s while playing in College Station.
Carrie and Caitlin enjoying a laugh on their way to Dallas.
Huntington Beach, California, home of PGF Nationals.
We especially save Texas Roadhouse for post game fun after getting a “W” on the mound.
Hyperice, hand ice bath, and social media check in at the hotel for physical and mental recovery after pitching.
Pre-game ritual: Waffle House and the jukebox.

Dropping in at local Restore location in Houston for some on the go leg compression recovery.[/caption

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